Moving House 2

Moving House - Associated Traumas

Losing all my stuff, my possessions, my things.

Losing my identity.

Losing my individuality.

Losing all of me.

Having none of me in the new house.

Binning 10 years of my history.

Me me me again.

Me is good. Fear is not good. The above statements have fear in them.

Personal comforts are good. Dependency on things is not good.

Possessions are good. Refusing to share is not.

Being authentic is good. Becoming argumentative is not good.

Keep an eye on 'Fear of change', it doesn't serve me.

Moving House - Associated JOYS

Starting afresh.

Letting go of singleness.

Leaving bachelor-hood.

Embracing a new relationship.

Rejoicing in sharing with someone.

Acquiring new shared possessions.

Giving back things that didn't belong to me.

Getting rid of bad history; replacing it with delicious Now.

Binning old furniture, old bedding, old clothes, old knickknacks that have no place in my future.

Finding myself.  Grounding myself.  Being at peace with myself.

Carrying my own turf within me.

Becoming even more secure and Big Inside.

Every new experience makes me stronger.

Not being phased by house improvements and DIY. Instead, revel in making my new home a better place. Turn it all into an adventure. Find the fun in it. Learn new skills.

Let old habits die. Develop new ones.

Living alone breeds anti-social behaviour.  Now is the time to address this!

Let's do it together. Let's share the load. Let's learn to work together. A team. Friends. Lovers. Companions. Inspiring each other. Motivating each other. Nurturing each other. Serving each other. Supporting each other. Learning from one another. A perfect union. Mutual respect and admiration. Such a beautiful picture.

So, moving home? It's ultimately a Joy. A delightful experience to have gotten through. A step up. A step forward.

Plan it. Put the hard work in immediately, don't let it drag, then relax as the house starts taking shape.

Empty the boxes quick, and get rid of them!